PLEASE, STOP TELLING PEOPLE THEY HAVE IMPOSTER SYNDROME! Are you a fraud? Are you an imposter? Are you worried ‘they’ will find you out? These types of statements are just a small selection of the many that our clients and people in STEMM say on a daily basis. These statements and thoughts ruminate in their heads and render them impotent…
Many of us jump quickly into labelling either ourselves or others. The “difficult client”, the “obstructive team member”, the “fake person”, and “imposter syndrome”. When we repeat negative statements or labels to ourselves they become our belief. They set ourselves and others up to be limited to that label and to take on all the expectations that we and society…
The conversation you are most resisting is the conversation you most need to have! What I mean by this is, all too often we get upset or hurt by someone, it could be a work colleague, a boss, it could even be someone in our family and we want to say something but think to ourselves that we better not. …
Many organisations fail to recognise the connection between communication and teams. They have a deep fear of losing good people yet are unsure what to do to prevent it. We all want to have clear and concise communication, be highly productive, and feel that we have the best organisation to attract and keep the most skilled people in their field.…
Society sets us up to believe the old adage: to be successful and get ahead in our career we must be competitive and win at all costs. Many people take this need to be competitive and ‘win’ in their career, to the point of bad-mouthing others, treating others like crap, and even engaging in bullying or harassment tactics to get…
How often do we get frustrated because we think we have communicated clearly, yet the response is off-track? Or we hear someone else’s request, progress, and delivery only to find out we over-or under-estimated what was required. If you’re anything like me (Elizabeth) this happens, and at times continues to happen, especially when we are under the pump, sharing new…
This ‘rule’ is extremely simple. Yet not many people I’ve met know it, or if they know it, they just don’t follow through with it. Maybe because it sounds too simple. Maybe because they don’t want to. Or maybe it’s because it sounds really challenging and they aren’t willing to go there. When you embrace this ‘rule’ and follow through…
The most important skill to have in STEMM to progress your career, to have influence, to inspire your colleagues with impact, and to cultivate success within your teams is to master ‘Effective Authentic Communication’! This month we are focussing on the topic area of Communication. This is not your usual “communication” information or training either! Communication is a massive topic…
This week we had the privilege of working with over 115 people in a hybrid event, face-to-face and online. What a delight to be with people in 3D. To be able to listen in a different way, share knowledge using all modalities, and even have a few hugs! One of the big things that came up for people was the…
In this month’s focus on Silo thinking and isolation in the workplace, today we are unearthing the Silo mentality. We will explore exactly what silo mentality is and then reveal what it takes to break down the silos. When an individual has a silo mentality, they have a rigid simplistic style of thinking. The person who thinks in terms of…